Why is Learning How to Approach Women So Important?

Why is learning how to approach women so important?

This question matters if you're tired of seeing beautiful women out in public and not knowing what to say, or how to approach and start a conversation to get a date.

It also matters if you're worried about being creepy, or maybe disrupting whatever she's doing during her day. If that's you, then you need to learn how to approach women the right way so you don't repel them and you attract them instead.

In this post, you'll learn:

  • Why approaching women is a game changer for men
  • Why you'll gain a big advantage over doing real life approaches instead of doing online dating
  • How to avoid being creepy so you don't scare women away

And a lot more. Keep reading to find out:

Why Is Learning How To Approach Women So Important For Men

So, why is learning how to approach women so important for men?

#1. You Avoid Competition Online

You'll learn how to avoid the competition online, which will automatically filter you out if you're over 30, over 40, or a certain height, because they're just looking at your stats.

In fact, they probably won't even see your stats if they set their filters and you're going to be into the ether, don't even exist.

#2. You Don't Have To Go Anywhere Special To Meet Women

As soon as you step out your door, there's attractive single females walking everywhere.

It could be at the grocery store, it could be at a coffee shop, it could be the waitress you're dealing with at the restaurant you're ordering from.

#3. You Have Better And Richer Experiences

Do you want to tell your friends, your family or your grandchildren that you swiped right on a phone app and that's how you met your wife?

Or, do you want to tell people you approached like a boss on the street, you got her number, got a date, and that turned into the relationship you have now?

That says a lot about who you are as a man, as the man who's on a computer screen or on a phone app, or the man who can actually go and talk to real women.

#4. It'll Develop Your Balls

It's all about courage and balls. That’s what attracts women.

But, this applies to a lot more than just women. You’ll develop social skills, communication skills, courage to stand up for yourself and be more assertive.

These are all qualities which are valuable anywhere you go, in whatever situation you may find yourself in.

By being more assertive, you'll always get more of what you want and less of what you don't want. This is because you'll stand up and actually say what you want instead of being passive, which is also the opposite of what attracts women.

How To Avoid Being Creepy

I have a full post on how to avoid being creepy, which you can find here. But, I'll cover the most important points here:

#1. Give Space

Don’t approach in her personal bubble. Nobody likes it when a stranger gets right up in their face.

#2. Watch Her Body Language

If she's showing a major interest in leaving, maybe you should let her leave and just wish her a good day.

#3. Say "Excuse Me?"

Say "excuse me?". It's polite and it also gets people's attention.

We're all conditioned to respond to people when they say "excuse me?", because they might need help or need directions or whatever. That's the easiest way to get our attention, in a lowkey way.

#4. Smile

Because smiling is disarming, if you have a genuine smile.

Not a Mickey Mouse smile, which is the opposite. It's basically overdoing it and smiling really hard because of insecurity.

But if you have a genuine smile, it's usually going to put a smile on other people's faces, too.

And if you can put a smile on her face, automatically, you're passing those good emotions over to her. That's going to make for a much better conversation and not being creepy.

#5. Be Confident

Obviously, that's kind of a trick step because how do you just be confident? You're not going to say "I'm confident now", and walk on and be confident.

However, you have to get out there. Get experience talking to real women, ask more women out, put yourself in more social situations or do things that cause you anxiety or fear. That’ll make you a stronger, more resilient man.

And over time, with that experience, you’ll develop real rock solid confidence, which you can apply to attract the kind of woman you want.


Here you will find a summary of the reasons why learning how to approach women is important:

  • Why is learning how to approach women so important for men:
  1. You avoid competition online.
  2. You don't have to go anywhere special to meet women.
  3. You have better and richer experiences.
  4. It'll develop your balls.
  • How to avoid being creepy:
  1. Give space.
  2. Watch her body language.
  3. Say "excuse me".
  4. Smile.
  5. Be confident.

So, how exactly do you approach women? Find out here.

And if you’ve got any questions or comments, leave them below.

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