When Should You Ask For A Kiss? (Don't Do This)

If you're wondering when you should ask for a kiss, then I'm going to make the assumption that you haven't been around the block and you don't have a lot of experience.

That's perfectly okay, by the way. Everyone starts out with no experience.

However, unless you're planning to struggle with women for the next five years, then it's definitely important to change.

Changing your mindset and your strategy when it comes to dating is key. Stop thinking about asking and think more about doing.

In this post, I'm going to explain:

  • Why you should never ask a girl for a kiss
  • What to do instead of asking

And so much more. Let's get into it.

When Should You Ask For A Kiss?

The question of when to ask for a kiss comes from a lack of understanding about attraction, assertiveness, and a lack of confidence in general. In dating, at least.

Women are attracted to bold, assertive men. That means men who go after what they want.

It also means taking physical action more often than verbal action.  You should do it instead of asking for it.

Although you can be assertive verbally, in the case of kissing and many things in dating, you want to take action and go for it.

This demonstrates that you are an assertive man and you have some confidence. That doesn't mean you're automatically going to get a kiss, though.

You will face some rejection, but you will show some of the qualities that women are attracted to.

To make matters worse, if you're asking for a kiss, it's very awkward. Nobody wants to be asked for a kiss. It's kind of putting them on a spot.

Even if she wanted a kiss before you asked, chances are very good that she's not going to want to say yes to that question.

Asking for a kiss kills the vibe, just like explaining a joke makes it not funny anymore.

Getting a kiss is all about timing, so you have to time it right and wait for the opportunity.

Usually, that's when you're feeling some butterflies and you're looking into her eyes and she smiles at you, you smile at her, and there's no more words being spoken.

There are also lots of other times you can go for a kiss too. Take a risk and go for your kiss, stop thinking about asking for it.

Even if you don't get a kiss this time, it doesn't mean you're not going to get a kiss on a later date. At least you're going to show what man you are, and that's going to make her more attracted to you.

It's going to be that or you're going to find out there isn't anything with her and you can both move on.


Here’s everything you need to remember about asking girls for kisses:

  • Kissing someone is all about timing. You have to time it right and wait for the opportunity
  • Women like assertive men who go after what they want. Stop thinking so much and start doing
  • Even if you don’t get your kiss, you’ll be showing her what kind of man you are and what is it that you want

That's all for today. If you’ve got any comments or questions, leave them below.

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