Let’s talk facts.
You’ve probably convinced yourself that women don’t want to date fat guys.
But how much of that belief is based on real experience—and how much is coming from your own insecurities?
Let’s take a sledgehammer to the myths and look at what women actually think about plus-size men, from attraction to dating potential—and how to work this to your advantage.
This is hands-down the most common lie guys believe.
Yes, some women want a shredded gym rat—but that’s just one type.
You know what else women like?
Body type matters way less than you think—because emotional chemistry, social intelligence, and bold energy matter more.
She might say, “I usually go for athletic guys.” But the guy she texts back?
When a plus-size man brings that kind of heat?
She reconsiders her “type.”
Before they even register your size, women notice:
If you nail these, your size becomes irrelevant—or even part of your appeal.
You have more control than you think. Try this:
Don’t disqualify yourself before she even gets the chance to decide.
Let her meet the confident, bold, well-dressed man who owns every part of who he is.
You may be exactly what she’s looking for—and she doesn’t even know it yet.
➤ I’ve been coaching men since 2011 and have approached thousands of women myself. I can teach you the art of social mastery and confidence building. Contact me directly for a free consultation about private coaching.