Should I Bring Flowers For A First Date?

Should I bring flowers for a first date?

I mean, should you bring flowers for a first date? The short answer is a cold hard no.

There are some reasons for this. Which is why in this post, I'm going to explain:

  • Why bringing flowers and the nice guy mindset, are holding you back from getting dating success
  • How this mindset is setting you up for failure

And so much more. Let's get into it.

Should I Bring Flowers For A First Date?

If you're thinking about bringing flowers for a first date, that means you're on a one way trip to Cringe Town and you're going to end up going home empty handed.

The "nice guy" who brings flowers to girls, wines and dines them, and simps harder than the last time, is a guy who doesn’t understand attraction with women and is focused on the wrong thing.

If a woman doesn't feel sexually attracted to you, then nothing will happen, nothing romantic of any sort whatsoever.

Here are some reasons why bringing flowers for a first date will just make your date throw up in her mouth.

To be clear, I'm not making fun of you. I once was that guy and I brought flowers to first dates which went nowhere.

This means I have some personal experience with creating embarrassing moments like bringing flowers for a first date.

Let's continue:

Why Flowers Won’t Attract Women

Bringing flowers to a first date may seem like a nice thing to do, but it's basically trying too hard.

A cool guy does not need to rely on props to impress his date. He relies on his personality and doesn't have to bring anything.

It's all about his personality, who he is as a man and how he can turn women on through his behaviors.

Usually, this guy is confident in himself and he's not bending over backwards to try to impress women.

In fact, he doesn't care if he impresses anyone at all. If one woman doesn't like him, he'll go for another. He has that option.

Guys who try too hard look needy and they feel like they need something to impress their dates because they can't rely on their personalities. They're not confident enough to do that.

In order to fix this, start working on your own personal identity. Who are you as a man?

You also need to build up your confidence and social skills. It'll go a long way to make connections with women and attract them.

Once you do that, you'll be able to stop relying on props.


Here are some common questions about bringing flowers for a first date with a girl:

Are flowers expected on a first date?

In modern times, flowers are generally not expected on a first date.

In fact, most of the time, they're probably a bad idea because it looks like you're trying too hard. It can come across as needy.

Should I bring anything on a first date?

The only thing you should bring on a first date is yourself.

Is it okay to give a rose on a first date?

Giving a rose on a first date is really a personal choice.

But generally, giving flowers of any sort on a first date is really not a good idea. It comes across needy and trying too hard.


Here are the main reasons why flowers won’t attract women:

  1. Even if it seems like a nice thing to do, bringing flowers on a first date is trying too hard
  2. Cool guys rely on their personalities and their self-confidence instead of props to impress their dates
  3. If you’re not confident, it’ll be hard to make connections with women and attract them 

That's all for today. If you have any questions or comments, leave them below.

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