How To Text A Girl After Getting Her Number

So, you finally asked out your crush? Or maybe you grew some King Kong sized balls and approached a girl. If so, then you need to know how to text a girl after getting her number.

In this post, you'll learn:

  • The only text message you're ever going to need to send a girl after meeting her
  • The best way to ask a girl out after getting her number

And so much more. Let's jump into it.

How To Text A Girl After Getting Her Number

This is really simple, but guys complicate it. They asks questions like: "Should I ask her how her day is going? Should I say 'Hey, what's up?'"

The answer is no. Also, you shouldn't be texting your life story either.

Don't waste time on all those messages after you get a girl's number. More often than not, guys will text themselves out of a date.

Long chats which go nowhere won't help you get a date with her. You're the man. So text her for what you came for, which is a date.

The Best Way To Ask A Girl Out After Getting Her Number

#1. Bring Up The Topic

If you already know her and you're talking about going on some kind of date or doing something, then bring that up. Ask her when she's free to do that.

#2. Mention Who You Are

If you approached her using a cold approach, then just make sure you mention who you are and where you met.

Don't forget to use her name, and then just ask her out:

"Hey Jenny, this is John. Nice running into you at the grocery store today.  Let's grab a drink next week. Which day is good for you?"

You can change your wording, of course. But basically , you need to get to the point.

I always do this on the first message. I don't bother with texting back and forth and doing all this "texting game".

I just want to get a date with her, I'm not interested in text messaging. If she likes you, then she'll agree and she'll want to come out with you.

And if she doesn't like you, she's not interested or not attracted in any kind of way, then she won't come out with you. It's very simple.

For more info on texting, check out this post.

Steps To Ask A Girl Out After Getting Her Number (Summary)

There are two steps you need to follow:

  1. Bring up the topic: if you already know her and you've talked about going on a  date, ask her when she's free to do that
  2. Mention who you are: if you approached her using a cold approach, make sure you mention who you are and where you met. You could use something like: 

"Hey Jenny, this is John. Nice running into you at the grocery store today.  Let's grab a drink next week. Which day is good for you?"

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