So, there's a girl you really like, but every time she's around, she makes you really nervous.
And now you're wondering: how do you overcome shyness with your crush?
In this post, you'll learn:
And so much more. Let's get into it.
Overcoming shyness with your crush doesn't have to be complicated, but it will require dealing with your anxiety.
Since she's only your crush at the moment, that means you haven't started dating yet.
So, let me help you get over your anxiety so you can get on that first date by answering some questions you may have.
I’m gonna start with some common questions on this topic, as well as detailing some tips that will help you build your confidence.
Shyness around your crush is often a result of insecurities and the fact that you've probably put her on a pedestal. This causes you to be worried about making mistakes because you think that if you do, it's going to push her away.
Also, having a lot of anxiety about making a bad impression can make you shy around her.
To be confident with your crush, try the following:
Don't just focus on your crush, but actually learn how to talk to women.
This will give you a lot more dating options, plus make you more confident when you see her.
Another great thing about getting good with women generally is it will make you less needy, so you're not going to be so desperate just for this one girl.
This will also help you have other options you can go for, too, which will make your crush more attracted to you.
She might be a great girl, but if you don't know her that well and you haven't started dating yet, it doesn't make any sense to put her on a pedestal.
Chances are that you're attracted to her because she's cute, which is perfectly fine, but you don't want to build a whole bunch of ideas about her just because of that.
If you're too worried about making a bad impression, chances are you won't do anything and all those nerves are going to make you actually do the opposite of what you want to do, which is make a good impression.
Whether she goes for you or not, you're going to be fine. There are going to be other dating options.
However, until you go for it, you're not going to know if she actually wants you.
It really makes no sense to have this thing writing for a long time and giving you all this anxiety.
The best thing you can possibly do is actually ask her out and see if she'll go for it. And if she doesn't go for it, it's time to move on and go find another girl.
To talk to your crush when you're shy, try the following:
A deep breath will calm your anxiety and it will actually give you some air in your lungs so when you go talk to her, you'll be able to say something.
It doesn't make any sense to hang in the shadows and just look at her. You need to actually go talk to her and start a conversation to get anything going.
Your body language will not only make you look more confident to her, but it's also going to make you feel more confident, which will make it easier to talk to your crush.
Make sure you make strong eye contact with her.
It may give you butterflies, but that's a good thing. You want her feeling those butterflies, too.
Speak to be heard and with a strong voice. It'll make you look a lot more confident and it'll make you more attractive to her as well.
This is because speaking with a strong voice is authoritative, which is an attractive feature.
For more info on how to overcome shyness, check out this post.
Here are all the answers you need to start overcoming your shyness with your crush:
This is often a result of insecurities and the fact that you've probably put her on a pedestal. Also, constantly worrying about impressing her and what she’s going to think about you can contribute to making you shy around her.
You can try the following:
It comes down to five simple steps:
If you’ve got any questions or comments, leave them below.
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