Where is the best place to meet a girl?
Contrary to popular belief, dating apps, online dating and clubs or bars are not the best places to meet women.
This is why:
- Bars or clubs: You have unlimited competition with drunk guys who have been harassing every girl in site. This means everyone has their guard up, and that means a lot more work for you. Not only that, but there are a lot of “party girls” which is not great if you want to get into a relationship.
- Tinder and other dating apps: Although it’s convenient, swiping left or right on photos is probably as superficial as you can get. It’s also difficult for the average guy to get quality matches because of the high level of competition.
- Online dating (POF, Bumble, OKCupid): Online dating is it’s own animal. It’s basically online marketing, so unless you understand marketing it’s a major grind. You also face major competition. Online, even attractive women get hundreds of messages.
Instead, try meeting women naturally to:
- Meet an unlimited number of women
- Get what you see (no fake profile pics)
- Know if you like her as soon as you meet her
- Build your confidence: The act of starting conversations naturally will help you build confidence and conversation skills
The top places to meet women:
There are women here studying, killing time, relaxing and getting together with friends. It's an easy, relaxed place with low pressure to start a conversation. Baristas are easy to chat up in this environment too, and I’ve gotten many dates with both staff and customers at different cafes.
On the street
You could be doing errands, meeting friends, on a work break or grabbing a bite to eat, but no matter what you’re doing you’ll have to hit the street. Doing this kind of approach takes some balls and some precise social skills, but it’s a simple approach. Don’t miss all of the opportunities you could have by learning this skill.
A slow environment where it is easy to start a conversation using observational openers. By learning these conversation skills you could get a date everytime you go shopping.
Here you really get what you see because most women will be wearing bikinis. It can be intimidating but is also a fun environment to meet attractive girls.
If approaching a girl on the street is too intimidating to start then try a meetup.com group. There are endless social groups you could join to meet someone with common interest.
Wine tasting events
If you like wine then this is a must. Although a lot of couples will be here, there are always single women looking to try new wines. Alternatively try a beer tasting event.
Definitely the right place to meet women who have the same musical taste. The downside is that the loud music will make it difficult to chat, so you will rely a lot more on body language.
Most college campuses have a higher ratio of women to men, so the picking is good. You don’t necessarily have to be a student to go to a college campus to meet women. There are usually coffee shops and other public areas you can hang out in.
There will always be groups of women at restaurants which you can approach. Depending on the environment there will be different ways to approach a table. Waitresses are also great to connect with and get dates.
Softball games are usually made up of a lot of women. I used to set up casual games with my friends and we ended up getting a lot of regulars every Sunday, and this resulted in some dating between different participants.
What is the best way to meet a girl?
Meeting women in public is the best way to get a date because the opportunities are endless. Any day you go out there are always women, and all you have to do is be bold enough to start a conversation. Do this every day and you’ll always have dates.
Keep reading below to learn specific methods and conversation starters.
Where is the best place to find a girlfriend?
Finding a quality girlfriend can happen almost anywhere. Although avoiding bars and clubs is usually a good idea because alcohol influences the outcome, which is not a great way to get a girlfriend.