How To Meet Women In Vancouver

Vancouver is a great city, except for all the junkies everywhere.

Aside from that, there's a lot of beauty to it. And obviously, there are a lot of beautiful women, which is why you may be wondering how to meet women in Vancouver.

One of the common complaints I hear about Vancouver is that other people aren't social, or that women here are cold or unapproachable.

The common theme of all the people who are saying these things are typically that they're not being social, and they don't have the balls to approach.

If you actually take a chance and you go talk to the women here and you learn some social skills so you can do it properly, women are very friendly and receptive.

That doesn't mean everyone's going to like you, but the better you get at starting conversations or approaching or whatever method you want to use to try to meet women in Vancouver, the better your reception is going to be.

If you're walking around all day with a resting b**** face and then you say that the city is unfriendly, that's all on you.

People are going to mirror what you're putting out to the world. If you want a smile, you should be putting out a smile first.

Meeting women in Vancouver is pretty much the same as meeting women anywhere. It all comes back to you.

What are you willing to do to meet women in Vancouver?

For the brave, adventurous guy, you can meet women by approaching them directly.

This is pretty easy, but you need some balls and you also need to keep a few things in mind like not getting up in a woman's space, respecting her personal bubble and not touching her.

That last one means don't tap her in the shoulder or do something weird like that. Nobody likes it when a stranger walks up and touches them. That could be threatening as well.

Just act like you're getting directions. Say, "excuse me", but obviously don't pretend you're asking for directions and go direct.

If you want to sharpen your conversation skills, then you can try indirect openers.

Indirect openers could be used basically anywhere. Any kind of shop, grocery store, coffee shop, restaurant. It doesn't really matter.

You're going to be making a comment on something you see, something that she's doing. Just make sure that it's relevant.

Whatever you say, make sure it's something that's part of her experience or something that she might be concerned with or interested in, not something about yourself.

Online dating can also be great in Vancouver. There are tons of women online.

However, it doesn't work for the majority of guys because women are going to filter you out based on statistics.

That means your height, your age and your photographs. But if you can get some half decent photographs up and have a good profile write up, you will attract some women.

Just keep in mind that online looks are the biggest factor. It's going to be all about the photographs, primarily.

The majority of the attractive women and actually pretty much every other woman are going to be going to the top 1% or 5 %, and then everyone else is going to be left with the scraps.

Online dating is basically online marketing. That means that if you can learn how to do online marketing well, you can probably make online dating work for you and meet more Vancouver women.

Even though Vancouver is known as the no fun city, there's actually quite a few fun events.

You can go to social groups, or a meetup group, sporting events, and different clubs.

Basically, it's just up to you to choose what you like, what you want to see or what you want to learn, join a class or sign up for an event and then have some courage to actually talk to the women who are there.

If you're a wallflower and you don't talk to them, you're not going to have much of a chance of meeting many Vancouver singles.

But if you're willing to experiment with how you open your conversations, practice strong body language and eye contact, and smile when you go talk to them, chances are you're going to have some good odds of getting some success.

To learn more about the specifics on how to meet women, check out this post.


If you want to meet more single women in Vancouver, keep these six points in mind: 

  1. When you actually take a chance and you go talk to women here, they’re usually very friendly and receptive
  2. People are going to mirror your attitude towards them. If you’re nice, they’re more likely to be nice as well 
  3. If you try approaching women directly, remember to not get up into her space, respect her personal bubble and don’t touch her
  4. If you want to sharpen your conversation skills, you can try indirect openers
  5. You can choose to go for the online dating route, if you have the right statistics
  6. You can also always go to social groups, sporting events, and different clubs

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