How To Make Women Approach You

How do you get women to approach you?

As men, we're always the ones who have to take the initiative and make approaches if we want to go talk to women. But what if there's another way?

In this post, you'll learn:

  • The downsides of trying to get women to approach you
  • The top 5 ways to get women to approach you

And many more details. Keep reading to find out more:

The Downsides Of Trying To Get Women To Approach You

Let's start with some of the downsides of trying to get women to approach you:

#1. You Don't Have Any Control

You're waiting for someone else to make a move.

#2. You're Showing A Passive Behavior

Waiting is passive behavior, and this is a turn off to women.

#3. You'll Miss Opportunities

You'll miss all the opportunities when women don't approach you.

#4. You’re Missing Out On A Chance To Become A Stronger Man

You're missing out on a chance to become a stronger man by having the courage to go and talk to people cold.

Women have approached me before, but it was completely random. There's nothing practical out of this that I can give you.

Basically, me and my buddy were walking down the street, and these two attractive women approached us. We didn't know what was happening. It was kind of a surprise.

They invited us to a bar. I don't know what the end result of the situation would have been, but the bar they took us to had a dress code. And I was wearing shorts.

I decided, “I’m getting out of here” and my buddy is like, "That's all right, I'm going to go with you too." So we both took off.

We don't know what could have happened that night. Maybe nothing, or maybe there was more to it. It was a very unusual circumstance, and it's never happened since then.

But what can you do to get women to approach you?

Top 5 Ways To Get Women To Approach You

Here are the top five ways to get women to approach you:

#1. Become A Social Media Star

For example, Dan Bilzerian. He has a lot of attention, right?

He's always showing himself off and interacting with women. He has a lot of followers, and that attracts the kind of women who are going to be more assertive and go after him.

#2. Get On Stage

I have an acquaintance who's in business. I won't tell you his name, but he's done very well by getting on stage and doing public speaking.

When you get on stage, you're an authority. And also, being a good speaker shows a lot of confidence.

#3. Get Famous

It's obvious that if you're a movie star or any other kind of star, that's going to attract a lot of attention from women. It’ll make them want to approach you.

#4. Make Eye Contact

This is actually one of the practical ways to get women to approach you. If you make eye contact with women on a regular basis, you're going to start getting some smiles.

And if you're in certain situations at coffee shops, a lot of the time, they actually will start talking to you. Basically, they’ll approach you.

This is something that doesn't make it necessary for you to have 1 million followers on Instagram.

#5. Be Really Good Looking

If you're a really good looking guy, chances are women are going to start conversations with you. They’re going to approach you.

But this is a very rare breed of guys. There aren't a lot of guys who are so good looking that women are approaching them.

So if that's you, you probably shouldn't be reading this post. And if that's not you, you most likely won't become that guy. It's reality.

Summary

Here is a summary of the steps to get women to approach you:

  • The downsides of trying to get women to approach you:
  1. You don't have any control
  2. You're waiting for someone else to make a move
  3. You're showing passive behavior
  4. You'll miss opportunities
  5. You’re missing out on a chance to become a (mentally) stronger man
  • The top 5 ways to get women to approach you:
  1. Become a social media star
  2. Get on stage
  3. Get famous
  4. Make eye contact
  5. Be really good looking

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