Are you wondering how to let a girl down easy after a first date?
Maybe the date seemed like a good idea at the time, but after meeting her, you'd rather schedule a second date with your dentist to drill your teeth out.
If so, keep reading because in this post, you'll learn:
And so much more. Let's get jump it:
This advice is based on assuming that you're messaging her by text, because you really don't need to do this in person.
This is an awkward moment that probably neither of you want to experience, so it's best to make this easy on both of you.
However, one point about letting a girl down easy after a first date is that very often, you don't have to do anything.
You just don't text her and then she doesn't text you. There you go, you're done.
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To clarify, that's not ghosting. Ghosting is when somebody messages you and you don't message them back.
So, that's why the first thing you can do is wait and see what happens. But if she's hot for you and she messages you afterwards, this is what to do:
"Hey, Anna, it was really nice chatting last time, but I wasn't feeling a connection. Best of luck".
That's all you need. It's polite and quick, and now both of you can move on. You really don't need some kind of elaborate excuse for this.
It’s kind of like when you applied for your dream job and they told you that they're going bankrupt so they're actually not hiring anymore… but then the next day you saw a bus stop advertisement saying that they were hiring.
FAQs
Anyways, here are some common questions about letting a girl down easy after a first date:
To turn a girl down after a first date simply let her know that you didn't feel a connection, and best of luck.
To politely reject someone after a first date, simply let them know that you had a good time but you weren't feeling a connection and you wish them the best.
To reject a girl nicely after a few dates, simply let her know that you had a good time in the last few dates but you're not feeling a connection. And best of luck.
To reject a girl like a gentleman, all you have to do is simply keep your manners, be polite about it, let her know you had a good time but you're not feeling it, and now you want to move on.
For more info on first dates, check out this post.
Here are some key points you need to remember when you’re thinking about letting a girl down easy after a first date:
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