How To Keep A Conversation Going Over Text With A Girl (4 Ways To Win Her Over)

You might be getting to know a girl and now you're wondering how to keep a conversation going over text with a girl.

If you want to keep your conversation going by text, then it's going to be important to have some communication skills and some skills to build a connection with her.

And a lot more. Let's get into it.

Why Is Texting Not Good For Connection Building With Women

We're going to start here because if you're trying to keep your conversation going by text with a girl, you might as well be shooting yourself in the foot.

Guys often lose dates by trying to keep a text conversation going instead of actually meeting the girls.

There's too much room for misinterpretation when you're sending texts.

When you're in person, she can actually hear your voice and see your face and understand sarcasm or other things like that much better.

If you're struggling to keep the text conversation going then maybe you shouldn't.

Meeting her in person is much more powerful. It's a much better way to create attraction and interest with a girl.

Now with that out of the way, let's get into:

How To Keep A Conversation Going Over Text With A Girl

If you want to keep a conversation going over text with a girl, then focus on her.

People love talking about themselves. Figure out what's interesting to her, especially if it's something meaningful: lifestyle, goals, ambitions or even future plans she has.

One question you can use is: "What inspired you to get into X? What inspired you to be a ballerina?" Or something like that.

Whatever it is that she's interested in, find out why.

Find out the motivation behind that and you're going to have much more interesting information instead of hopping from topic to topics.

You'll lose a conversation if you're moving around too much and not digging deeper.

Always use open ended questions and don't assume.

It's better to ask her and get her to tell you. That has much more value than you telling her about herself.

And most importantly, get her to meet you in person.

That's where the real magic's gonna happen, and you're going to avoid losing her by texting too much.

Summary

When you’re trying to keep a conversation going over text with a girl, remember these 4 essential points:

1. Find out what’s interesting to her and understand the motivation behind it
2. You'll lose a conversation if you're not digging deeper on topics to talk about
3. Always use open ended questions and don't assume
4. Get her to meet you in person

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