So you got a girl's number, and now you're wondering how to get a girl to like you over text?
Well, the thing is, if you got her number already, it should be clear that she already does like you.
The trick here now is just to set up the date. So, what's the hold up then?
If you're asking this question, it's probably a mindset that's actually holding you back from getting the girls you like.
In this post, you'll learn:
And so much more. Let's jump into it.
Let's start with why it's a bad idea to try to make girls like you over text.
For starters, you got her number, and she wouldn't have given you her number if she wasn't interested in some way.
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Unless she was like one of those lizards that drop their tail when a predator attacks them. Then the predator goes after the tail, which keeps wiggling (that's the number).
If that is the case, then nothing you do by text is going to make her like you.
But if she does like you and she gave you her number because she likes you, then the thing to do right now is to follow up with her and get a date.
You don't want to be stuck messaging back and forth, because it's very easy to miscommunicate things and end up pushing girls away when they're waiting for you to ask them out.
If she's one of these girls who dropped her lizard tail to distract you, then it's time to move on and find a new girl.
If not, it's time to invite her out on a date before you lose your opportunity.
Because the longer you wait, the chances of you not getting a date with her increase. So, strike while the iron is hot.
You can't really make girls like you over text, but there are things you can do to avoid making her dislike you and run away.
In effect, you're basically going to make her like you more for not acting needy.
This means that you sort of can make her like you by text, but it's really about not texting. Follow these guidelines to increase your odds and get her out on a date:
If you text too often, it'll make you look like you don't have anything else going on, like you're not seeing any other girls, or you don't have any other options.
When guys look too interested, it typically makes girls disinterested. Of course being interested is fine, but overdoing it is going to kill the attraction.
If a few days have passed, it’s possible that she hasn’t answered because she’s busy. However, a general rule of thumb is that if it has already been a week without response, then it’s time to move on.
Save all your stories for when you see her in person and you actually get to meet her. You can do a lot more there with your voice, your body language and your eye contact.
Everything else is going to come together and help you create a better connection than if you're doing it by text.
Nobody really wants to read a big block of text on their phone anyways, or at least most people don't.
But, there is a way of making your messages more personal and effective. I’ll share with you some of them:
Unless she texts you. If she wants to have a conversation and she's texting you, that's fine. Reciprocate, get involved. That's perfectly fine.
She's obviously interested in doing that. But remember, unless she's texting you, avoid sending her messages frivolously.
As your relationship develops, you're probably going to start texting more often, and that's fine.
As long as she's reciprocating, go bonkers. It doesn't really matter.
There isn't anything you can text her to make her like you more. Only time and your personality as a man are going to do that for you.
For more info on texting, check out this post.
There are two main things you need to remember about getting a girl to like you over text:
Why you shouldn’t try do it in the first place
Steps to get a girl to like you over text
If you still want to try and do this, follow these guidelines:
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Hi, I'm Eddy Baller, author & founder of Conquer & Win.
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