How To Friendzone Someone You Slept With (2 Guaranteed Methods)

How to friendzone someone you slept with?

If you took a girl home and slept with her but now your feelings have changed, then friendzoning may be the best way to go.

In this post, you'll learn:

  • Some methods to successfully friendzone someone you slept with
  • How to communicate that your feelings are strictly platonic

And a lot more. Let's get into it.

How To Friendzone Someone You Slept With

On one hand, there's the scenario of taking a girl home and sleeping with her. If your feelings have changed, then friendzoning may be the best way to go.

On the other hand, it could just be a really crappy indirect way to let them off easy. But that's up to you.

Personally, I think friendzoning a girl that I slept with is a waste of time and I'd rather move on. But hey, this post is all about you.

So, here are two examples of how to friendzone a girl you slept with:

#1. The Direct Method

The Direct Method

These kind of things are usually best done in person, but you can text them as well:

"Hey Alexandra, I had a lot of fun with you last night, but I'm just not feeling that romantic vibe moving forward.

But I'd really like to be friends if you'd like to be friends as well. However, I understand if that's really not your thing and I'm happy to go our separate ways."

That example is plight and direct and won't leave her wondering what you're feeling.

#2. Friendzoning Through Friend Actions

Friendzoning Through Friend Actions

I don't really like this option because it means you're still hanging out, which is fine if that's what you want, but it's also indirect and can lead to confusion.

Try the following if that's what you want to do:

  • Don't hang out alone
  • Call her your friend
  • Don't sleep with her

Basically, if you make it clear that you’re friends platonically and that you're not interested in her romantically, she's going to probably get the hint.

This is actually how guys friendzone themselves as well, when they treat girls like friends and they get that reciprocated back to them. So give that a try if you want to keep her around in a non-romantic way.


Now, here are some common questions about friendzoning a girl you slept with:

How do you tell someone you just want to be friends after hooking up?

To tell someone you want to be friends after you sleep with them, the best thing to do is just be direct about it.

Tell her you had a good time but you're not feeling anything and you're not interested in a relationship or any more sexual get togethers.

How do you go back to a friend after sleeping together?

If you slept with your friend and you want to go back to the way things were before you slept together, the best thing to do would be to explain your feelings about it.

Just let her know you value her friendship and although you had fun with her physically as well, you'd much rather keep their friendship because that's more valuable to you.

Can you just be friends with someone you slept with?

It's possible to just be friends with someone you slept with.

Although the thing between men and women is once you sleep together, or even before you sleep together, you can't really call it friends.

Friends don't fuck each other, so you could maintain a platonic friendship. However, that chance of intimacy is always there.

How long does an FWB relationship last?

FWB relationships or friends with benefits can last a really long time if you want them to.

But a lot of friends with benefits relationships can also end over a single weekend. It really depends on your chemistry and what you want.

Personally, I've maintained different friends with benefits relationships over the course of years.

To learn more about the friend zone, check out this post.

Steps To Friendzone Someone You Slept With (Summary)

It comes down to two simple steps:

  1. The direct method: ideally you’ll tell her this in person, but it works over text as well. The goal here is to be direct about your feelings and avoid leaving her to wonder
  2. Friendzoning through friend actions: stop sending her confusing signals and focus on calling her your friend, not hanging out with her alone and not sleeping with her again
How To Friendzone Someone You Slept With

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