How To Attract A Woman Who Is Not Interested

So you really like a girl, but she doesn't really like you, and you're here to find out how you can attract a girl who's not interested in you.

Well, that's quite the conundrum, because you can't really make someone like you if they don't like you.

In this post, you'll learn:

  • How to fix your situation
  • How to get the girl you like

And a lot more. Let's get into it.

The Real Problem With Trying To Attract A Girl Who Doesn't Like You

If you're really focused just on one girl, one girl who doesn't like you, you probably don't have any other options. In fact, this girl is probably the low hanging fruit.

She's the only one who seems available or at least the most available for any girl you know.

The reason I know this is because you wouldn't be preoccupied with attracting one girl who doesn't like you if you had other options. If other girls did like you, you wouldn't be chasing this one.

So, how do you fix this problem? Well, the answer is both simple yet difficult.

You need to learn how to attract women plural, not singular. Not learn how to attract this one girl, but you need to learn how to attract women.

If you had other options, if you knew how to attract women, you might actually be able to get this one too.

One of the biggest reasons probably is because you'd be changing your behavior. You wouldn't be acting needy at all because you have other things going on.

But if you’re trying to attract a girl who doesn’t like you… you probably haven’t got those options. If you had them, you'd be more attractive to her, because everyone wants what they can’t have. Especially if they have to fight for your attention.

However, it's still possible to get this girl. Let's talk about how you can do that as well as getting other options in your life too:

How To Attract A Girl Who Is Not Interested

#1. Detach

You can't be attached to the outcome and put all your eggs in one basket.

Don't be betting everything on this one girl, because the odds are that she's not going to turn and start liking you. It's still possible and it's going to be a lot more likely if you can detach from that.

#2. Don't Put Her On A Pedestal

Maybe she's great, maybe not. Maybe you don't even know her that well, but the chances are she's not that great.

You really have to get to know somebody well before you invest in them. By putting her on a pedestal, you're going to be behaving differently around her.

You'll be more nervous, acting more desperate, possibly more needy, and that's going to turn her off.

#3. Learn How To Attract Other Women

Go start meeting other women and start asking them out.

Check out this post to learn how to approach women. This will greatly expand your options by learning important tips such as:

  • How to approach women in all situations
  • What to do to get a relationship with a great woman
  • How to build your confidence to ask women out
  • What to say in conversations with women
  • The easiest way to avoid being “creepy”

#4. Ask Her Out

If you haven't asked out this girl that you're really interested in, that you think doesn't like you, maybe she actually would go for it.

If you haven't asked her yet, there's no way to know for sure that she wouldn't say yes.

Try and ask her out for a coffee, keep it simple and see what happens after that. If she's not interested, then just move on.


Here are the four steps that will help you attract a woman who is not interested:

  1. Detach: don’t bet everything on this one girl
  2. Don't put her on a pedestal: it’ll make you act differently around her and do things that will turn her off
  3. Learn how to attract other women: ask more women out. It’ll help you expand your options
  4. Ask her out: try and ask her out. It’s the only way to know for sure if she’d really turn you down

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