How To Ask A Girl Out Over Text

So, you already have your crush's number, but you don't know how to ask a girl out over text.

If that's the case, keep reading. I'm going to explain:

  • The simplest solution to asking out a girl you like over text
  • How to ask a girl out over text in different scenarios

And so much more. Let's get into it.

How To Ask A Girl Out Over Text

As a man, being assertive is really attractive to women. That's why the simplest solution to asking out your crush over text is to ask her out.

Get to the point. Whether you know her pretty well or it's a girl you just met, the message can be very basic and simple.

Here's one example. Keep in mind that you can tailor it to your own situation and your own personality, but really you don't have to add much to it or take much away from it:

"Hey, let's have a drink next week. Which day works for you?" That's it.  It's really that simple. All you have to do is ask her out.

You're sitting there pondering some magical words to make her want to go out with you. It's not going to work.

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She either likes you already and she wants to go out with you and she's waiting for you to ask her out, or she's not going to be interested no matter what you say.

But what if you don't want to ask her out for a drink and you want to ask her out for some other kind of get together instead?

Well, here are a few more examples to give you some ideas:

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How To Ask A Girl To Dinner Over Text

You could try: 

"Hey Jenny, let's have dinner this weekend. I know a great spot with some food I've been wanting to try. Which day is good for you?"

How To Ask A Girl To The Movies Over Text

"Hey Jenny, let's check out a movie together next week. I've heard Top Gun is really good. How about you?"

Then when she replies and she shows interest and she wants to see Top Gun or whatever other movie, then you can set up the date.

Just be like "Cool, Thursday works for me too. Let's meet at 07:00 outside the theater."

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How To Ask A Girl To Come Over Through Text

Now, this one is basically about hooking up and you may have already gone on a first date, but it's not necessary.

You could actually use this as your first date too. That's going to depend on how confident you are and how much of a risk taker you are.

You can try: "Hey Jenny, let's have a drink at my place this week. Which day works for you?"

Alternatively, if you already know which day you're free, you're only free on Saturday, and the rest of the week you're busy, then you can just say Saturday.

The reason I like to say "Which day is good for you?" Is because I want to find out her schedule first.

After I know her schedule, it's easier than trying to chase down a day. Then I can see if it matches with my schedule.

One alternative to invite a girl over is instead of asking her to come over for a drink is ask her to come over for dinner and you're going to be her chef.

Women love it when men cook for them. And it also gives them plausible deniability, because obviously they were going to your house for dinner. They weren't going over for sex, but "things just happened".

There's two parts to this invitation: part A is, "Hey, Jenny, do you like Italian food?" Or insert whatever kind of food you like.

She replies back, she says yes. And now part B, you reply back:

"Great. I've been experimenting with Italian cooking recently. How about you come over for dinner next week and I cook for you? Which day works best for you?"

Then if she's down with that, you just nail down the time and date.

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Summary

Here's what you can say to ask a girl out over text in different scenarios:

  • A date in general: Hey, let's have a drink next week. Which day works for you?
  • A dinner date:  Hey Jenny, let's have dinner this weekend. I know a great spot with some food I've been wanting to try. Which day is good for you?
  • A date to the movies: Hey Jenny, let's check out a movie together next week. I've heard Top Gun is really good. How about you?
  • Asking her to go over to your place:  Hey Jenny, let's have a drink at my place this week. Which day works for you?

For more information on how to text women, check out this post.

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