How do you approach a woman you don't know, aka a stranger?
I'm going to share with you a few simple steps to help you approach a woman you don't know.
In this post, you'll learn:
And much more. Stay on this post to learn the steps to successfully approach a woman you don’t know:
So, you see a really cute stranger and you want to talk to her. But your nerves have got the best of you and you're not sure what to say or do.
Approach that cute stranger and overcome your nerves. Start walking quickly. The more you think about it, the harder it's going to get.
And you don't want to be walking around behind her for blocks and blocks. That's going to get strange. You want to do it immediately.
As soon as you see her, you want to talk to her, start walking towards her. Don't even think about talking to her. Just actually start walking towards her.
Get her attention. Think about when you're asking for directions. Say, "Excuse me."
Tell her exactly why you're there and why you want to talk to her.
Have a conversation, get to know her, and make a connection.
If you feel like you made a connection, ask her out. Ask for a coffee, something that's easy to say yes to.
Don't ask her for something complicated or for her to set up a day right there in the moment. It could be a lot easier if you say, "Hey, let's have a coffee sometime." And then she could say yes or no.
Now, to help overcome your nerves, focus on opening. Don't focus on having a conversation or asking her out, whether she's going to like you or any of those other things. These are all distractions.
Focus on getting over to her and telling her what you have to tell her. In regards to mindset, don't be a number hunter.
Don't walk around trying to get girls' phone numbers. A phone number doesn't mean much if she doesn't like you.
If you don't make a connection and she gives you that number, two things could happen. She's never going to reply or you're going to get a fake number.
After you open, focus on making a connection – getting to know her. And after that, then you can ask for her number. That's going to be the next logical step.
These five points could be your guideline for when you want to approach a woman you don't know:
For more details on how to approach a woman, check out this guide.
And if you have any questions or comments, leave a comment below.
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