How To Approach A Woman On The Street

If you're like most guys, you spend a lot of time walking on the street.

If that's the case, then you can massively increase your dating options by learning how to approach a woman on the street.

In this post, you'll learn:

  • What you can do to meet women while doing errands
  • Why you'll never run out of dating options again

And a lot more. Let's jump into it:

Why Is Learning How To Approach A Woman In The Street Important

First, should you approach women on the street?

The short answer is yes and no. It really depends.  You're not going to please everybody you run into.

But, if you learn how to do this properly and you approach with a lot of confidence, you're not timid and worried about looking creepy, then you'll put anyone you approach on the street at ease.

Your relaxed demeanor will create a really good experience for both of you. And of course, to do this properly, it takes a lot of experience.

Even when you're starting, there's a few pointers you can remember to make the experience better for both of you.

I'm going to explain those pointers and show you exactly what to do so you can avoid freaking anyone out, including yourself, as well as the exact steps to take to stop someone and start a conversation:

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How To Approach A Woman In The Street

#1. Get Her Attention

You need to get attention. Use something simple, just say: "Excuse me" or "Hey".

Usually "Excuse me" is the best though, because we're all conditioned to respond to "Excuse me". People are going to think you're asking for directions.

#2. Stop Walking

If she's walking, and you catch up to her, make sure you stop walking as soon as you get her attention.

This is the first point where you're going to start leading. And of course, if she's not walking, then don't worry about that. Walk up to her and start from there.

#3. Smile

Smiles are disarming.

If you come in with a smile and you're not looking overly serious, it's not only going to make her feel more at ease, it's going to make you feel better.

Any body language you're projecting is also going to affect the way you feel.

#4. Tell Her Why You Stopped Her

This is basically just getting to the point. It's about being direct.

Just tell her you saw her, she was really cute and you had to say hi.

#5. Have A Conversation

Let your curiosity guide you while you're having a conversation and learn about her.

#6. Ask Her Out

Keep it simple and don't make her have to think a lot and think about a date to go meet you.

Ask her for something simple like, say, "Let's have a coffee sometime". And if she says yes, at that point, get her number.

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How To Prevent Anybody From Freaking Out When You Approach

#1. Give Her Some Space

Don't invade her personal bubble. Nobody likes it when a stranger gets right up in their face.

My general rule of thumb is if I can reach out and I can't touch her, that's usually a good distance, maybe four to six feet.

#2. Leading

If you're approaching her while she's walking, as soon as you get her attention, stop.

It's not only so you can start leading, but also if she wants to walk away, she can do that. Just let her go.

#3. Speak To Be Heard

Don't walk up and start whispering to her. That sounds weird, but I've seen it happen many times.

When guys get nervous, the volume of their voices go down and they go into whisper mode.

Especially if there's other people around and they're trying to avoid being heard.

And that's actually a huge mistake, because now it sounds like you're trying to hide something bad that you're doing, but you're not doing anything bad. You're having a conversation.

So make sure you speak to be heard. It doesn't matter if there's other people around.

If you have to put on a performance, put on a good performance. Don't put on a bad performance. Show everyone that you're the boss.

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Summary

Here's what you can do to approach a woman in the street:

  1. Get her attention: usually "Excuse me" works the best. People are going to think you're asking for directions
  2. Stop walking: make sure you stop walking as soon as you get her attention
  3. Smile: body language projects how you feel and smiles are disarming
  4. Tell her why you stopped her: it's about being direct and getting to the point
  5. Have a conversation: let your curiosity guide you
  6. Ask her out: ask her for something simple like, say, "Let's have a coffee sometime"

And here's what you can do to prevent anyone freaking out on your approach:

  1. Give her some space: don't invade her personal bubble
  2. Leading: stop walking as soon as you get her attention
  3. Speak to be heard: show everyone that you're the boss

And if you have any questions, leave them below.

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