How To Approach A Woman In Public (6 Of The Best Ways To Get A Date)

You're walking down the street when you see the woman of your dreams. But how can you start a conversation with her?

In this post, you'll learn:

  • How to approach a woman in public
  • How to make sure you're never stuck wondering what to say again

And so much more. Let's jump into it.

Benefits Of Learning How To Approach Women

This can be really scary for guys. It can cause a lot of anxiety.

However, it can be fruitful if you overcome your anxiety and learn how to do it confidently.

If you learn how to do this, you're not going to be stuck having to talk to your coworkers and ask them on a date, or get introduced by friends, or only meet at the bar.

You'll be able to meet women everywhere, every time you step out of your door.

Learning how to do this will give you these opportunities you never thought were possible.

It'll help you develop some balls, some courage and confidence that you can apply in any area of your life, socially or otherwise.

You'll also develop the social skills you need to make connections with people, including romantically or platonically.

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How To Approach A Woman In Public

#1. Overcome Your Fear

To do this, start walking towards a woman you want to talk to immediately.

By standing still, you're only going to get more nervous and you're very unlikely going to talk to her.

But, if you start walking towards her, at the very least now you're in motion and it's easier to get something going.

#2. Grab Her Attention

Once you catch up to her, grab her attention. Say a simple "Excuse me" just like if you were asking for directions.

If she happens to be walking, make sure you stop walking with her as soon as you have her attention.

You want to be able to give her an exit so she can keep walking by herself if she doesn't want to talk, as well as the fact you want to lead, too.

This is really important, that as a man you start leading right away.

#3. Explain Why You Approached

Just tell her in simple terms basically what's happening.

You were walking down the street, you saw her walking the other way and you had to go talk to her.

You had to say hi to her because she's really cute.

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#4. Give A Compliment

Give her a compliment, something simple. You can say she's cute, looks great, looks nice, or has a great sense of style.

#5. Get To Know Her

Allow your curiosity to guide you here. Everybody likes talking about themselves, so, get her to talk about herself.

Learn a bit about her. Don't be self-conscious and think about yourself.  Think about her and think of what you can learn about her.

#6. Ask Her Out

After that's done, you're going to want to get out of there. So, just ask her out.

Say, "Hey, let's have a coffee sometime" and wait for the yes or no.

If she says yes, then you can grab her number at that point and if she says no, that's cool too. Just wish her a good day.

If you want more details on how to approach a woman, check out this post.

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Steps To Approach A Woman In Public (Summary)

Here are the steps you need to remember:

  1. Overcome your fear: it'll reduce your nerves and make it easier to get something going
  2. Grab her attention: say a simple "Excuse me" just like if you were asking for directions.
  3. Explain why you approached: explain her what's happening in simple terms
  4. Give a compliment: you can say she's cute, looks great, looks nice, or has a great sense of style
  5. Get to know her: allow your curiosity to guide you and learn about her
  6. Ask her out: say, "Hey, let's have a coffee sometime" and wait for the yes or no

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