How To Approach A Woman About Threesomes With You And Your Wife (Top 2 Best Ways To Set It Up)

Do you want to spice up your sex life by adding another woman?

Are you wondering how to approach women about threesomes with you and your wife or girlfriend?

In this post, you'll learn:

  • How you can set up threesomes with your wife or your girlfriend 
  • How to do it if you don't have a partner yet

And a lot more. Let's get started:

How To Approach A Woman About Threesomes Without A Partner

What this is going to require is that you're dating multiple women. And how do you make that happen?

By learning how to approach women so you can actually get more dates and start developing the kind of love life you deserve.

To learn exactly how to approach a woman, check out this post

Once you're dating two or more girls, this is going to be very simple. It's going to be the same as approaching a woman about a threesome if you have a girlfriend or a wife.

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How To Approach Your Wife Or Girlfriend About A Threesome

Doing this requires open communication, and you have to be really comfortable asking these kinds of questions.

There are two simple questions that I use to find out how open my wife or girlfriend is to this kind of situation. All you have to say is:

"Have you ever had a threesome before?" Or, "Have you ever considered being a woman before?"

You're going to find out very quickly how open they are to these scenarios by their reaction to your questions.

Also, it's better to ask when you're already in a sexual mood. Maybe after sex and you're having pillow talk or something like that.

This is better as opposed to bringing up the question right after going to the automotive store and buying some parts where you're fixing your car and saying:

"Hey, have you ever considered having a threesome?" That may not be the best time to ask.

But if she's positive about it and she's curious, which a lot of women are, then you can discuss it more and discuss how it might work between the three of you.

At this point, you're going to want to find a third to join you.

You can discuss having a friend, although bringing a friend into this situation like one of her friends or your friends could potentially get messy.

It's usually good to bring a stranger into the situation that you're not going to have a direct connection with.

If you already know somebody who could potentially be a partner for you and your wife or girlfriend, it's going to be basically about asking the same kind of question:

"Have you ever considered having a threesome?" Or "Have you ever considered being with another woman?" And then gauging the reaction to that question.

Of course, there are lots of other ways to find a third partner. You can go online if you want, that could be a really good way.

Or, learn how to approach women on the street. You can check out this post to learn how to do that.

Once you have that third partner, set up a drink for all three of you to get together and get comfortable with each other.

This is what I did in my very first threesome when I got these two girls together.

We got together at one of the girl's houses and we all had a drink together and it was a nice intimate environment, very quiet.

Everyone got to chat and it turned out there was chemistry between everyone. So that worked out very well.

That's what you're going to want to find out, if there's chemistry between everyone. Because if somebody is not 100% on board, then it's not going to work well.

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Summary

Approaching women for a threesome it's the same with or without a partner. The only two questions you need to see if they're open to it are:

  • Have you ever considered having a threesome?
  • Have you ever considered being with another woman?

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