How To Approach A Timid Women Who You Like (Top 5 Ways To Ask Her Out)

Do you have a crush on a shy woman?

Then this is the post for you. I'm going to explain:

  • How you can approach a timid woman who you like and not freak her out
  • The difference between approaching a timid woman vs a confident one

And so much more. Keep reading to find out:

How To Approach A Timid Woman Who You Like

These steps are for when you already know this girl, or somebody you have a crush on, or you know of her, so you know she's shy.

The key here is to understand that approaching a shy or timid woman is the same as approaching any woman. Obviously with a few minor differences.

Let's go over some of the details to make it easier for you:

#1. Chat With Her

Wait to ask her out and chat with her when you can do it one on one.

This will kind of work to your advantage as well, because you're not having any social pressure on you, any eyes, and not have to perform for other people.

You're just going to be performing for yourself and for her. I've done this before in coffee shops.

When I've gotten to know people in the coffee shops and I wanted to ask one of the girls who were working there, I would wait until it was quiet.

Since there no longer weren't a lot of people around, I'd ask her to come aside and then talk to her and say: "Hey, let's go out sometime".

#2. Don't Act Shy Yourself

Women are attracted to confidence, whether they're shy and timid or they're really confident themselves, they want a confident guy.

#3. Smile

Don't be super serious.

Smiles are disarming and it's easier to make her feel more comfortable if you smile. A genuine smile, of course.

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#4. Be Direct And Assertive

Get to the point and ask her for what you want. You want to go with her, so ask her for a coffee.

When men are assertive, that's an attractive quality that women like.

#5. Ask Her Out For Something Casual

Something that's very low investment, like a coffee. It's not going to take all day.

Don't invite her to go to the fair and 20 other things or on a big trip.

It's easier for her to say yes to coffee than it is for her to say yes to a one week trip or something crazy.

And that's it. It's really quite simple.

Shy and timid women are attracted to the same things that confident women are attracted to. You need to have confidence yourself and be able to go after what you want.

The only difference may be that you may not be as aggressive. This holds true for approaching any woman though.

You're not going to act super aggressive, but you might be more forward for a really confident woman. That's the only difference.

If you want to expand your options or you don't want to only approach this shy or timid woman, check out this post to learn the details on how to be able to approach anyone.

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Steps To Approach A Timid Woman (Summary)

These 5 steps will be the key for you to approach that shy woman you like:

  1. Chat with her: wait to ask her out and talk to her until you're one on one
  2. Don't act shy yourself: women want a confident guy whether they're confident themselves or not
  3. Smile: it'll be easier to make her feel more comfortable if you have a genuine smile
  4. Be direct and assertive: ask for what you want confidently
  5. Ask her out for something casual: it's easier for her to say yes to a coffee

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