How To Approach A High Maintenance Woman

Are you a guy who wants the most attractive woman?

If so, chances are learning how to approach a high maintenance woman is going to help you get what you want.

In this post, you'll learn:

  • How to start conversations with high maintenance women
  • How to deal with your own nerves
  • How to deal with attitude without becoming a doormat
  • How to create instant attraction using your own natural and masculine virtues

And a lot more. Keep reading to start learning:

Approaching High Maintenance Women Vs. Approaching Low Maintenance Women

For the most part, approaching these two different types of women is exactly the same.

The same attraction principles which are true all over the world are going to be true for the woman you're attracted to, too.

But there is one really big difference, and that big difference is you.

It's a mindset, putting these kinds of women on a pedestal because you're attracted to them. It makes you think they're something different than any other woman.

But, if you change your thinking and you take these women off of that pedestal, you're going to be attracting a lot more women.

Pedestal thinking will start changing your behavior in very weird and needy ways, the kind that aren't attractive to women.

If you start altering your behavior because you're really attracted to somebody, you're putting them on a pedestal and you'll be nervous. She's going to notice that.

She's going to notice that you're not the guy who has the balls that she wants. And that leads us to the next point:

How To Become The Man Who Attracts High Maintenance Women

This is all about your personality and your character development. By becoming a better man, you're going to attract a lot more women.

When I say better man, I don't mean being a good person. I mean developing your masculine personality traits.

That means using your balls instead of being passive and being overly polite, which are feminine traits.

When I say balls, what I mean specifically is having some courage or assertiveness. It's asking for or going after what you want confidently.

You don't want to do other things that are going to turn women off too, like telling them you like them or dumping all your emotions and your feelings on them.

Of course, there is room for this in a relationship, your feelings are okay. There's nothing wrong with that. Just don't bring this upfront and dump it on a girl that you're interested in or that you're trying to attract, because it's going to put most women away.

And why is that? Well, typically it looks needy and it comes across as feminine. Women want men and not guys who are acting like women.

But how do you become this kind of man?

How To Develop Assertiveness To Attract High Maintenance Women

The good news is it's really easy to practice your assertiveness. You can start doing this today.

For example, one thing I've noticed here in the winter is a lot of people will be passive instead of being assertive in coffee shops.

A lot of coffee shops will open up their door even though it's windy and freezing outside.

If you look inside, all the people in the coffee shop are wearing their jackets and they're still freezing even though they went to get a coffee or tea, and to warm up.

Every once in a while, I'll see somebody who's assertive and stands up and goes to ask them and says, "Hey, can I close the door?" The vast majority of people will choose to be passive instead.

This is just one situation where you can practice your assertiveness by asking for what you want: "Hey, do you mind if I close the door? It's really cold in here."

Instead of doing what most people are going to do and keep that to themselves, practice asking for what you want every single day.

Every time you go to a restaurant, every time you go to a coffee shop, every time you're shopping. That doesn't mean becoming a Karen and complaining about everything. It just means you're asking for what you want, including approaching women you're attracted to.

When you see them or come across them, don't just look at her and think, "Wow, it'd be nice to talk to her." Actually go talk to her.

Or if you have a crush, there's a girl you already know and you like her, stop holding back. Go and ask her out.

By practicing your assertiveness on a daily basis and asking for what you want and going after what you want, you're going to go a long way to attract the kind of high maintenance woman that you want.


Here is everything you need to know in order to approach high maintenance women successfully:

  • Approaching high maintenance women vrs. approaching low maintenance women: the only big difference is you and your mindset. Avoid putting women you're interested in on a pedestal, it'll make you more attractive to a lot more women
  • How to become the man who attracts high maintenance women: you need to develop your masculine personality traits. This means being assertive and going after what you want with confidence
  • How to develop assertiveness to attract high maintenance women: practice asking for what you want every single day when you go to a restaurant, a coffee shop, or even when you're shopping

If you want to know the exact steps to approach any woman, check out this post.

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