How Should A Woman Approach A Man (4 Simple Steps)

How should a woman approach a man?

Normally, approaching is something that men do when they want to meet women.

But if you're a woman and you're interested in approaching men, this is something that can be done quite simply.

Although it's not super common, most men are going to be flattered by the fact that you are interested in them and you had the courage to go talk to them.

In this post, you'll learn:

  • How to approach men successfully
  • Benefits you'll get by making the attempt

And a lot more. Let's get started:

How To Approach Men

This actually happened to myself once when I was out with a buddy.

We were walking down the street and we were actually looking to go meet the women.

Interestingly enough, two very attractive women came and approached us, and they invited us over to a bar with them. This is very uncommon, but it does happen.

I've had clients who, even if their life depended on it, they couldn't approach a woman. However, they have been approached by women, and that's how they got their past girlfriends.

Of course, leaving the approaches to women left them with very few options, and that's why they came to me.

And if you're here, if you're a woman and you want to learn how to approach men, that may be you as well.

You want to learn how to develop your own options. What do you gain from learning how to approach men?

Benefits About Learning How To Approach Men As A Woman

Well, for starters, you don't have anything to lose and you have everything to gain.

If you go talk to a man you're interested in, there's an opportunity that you might get a date right there, and it might turn into a relationship.

And by making the attempt, you're going to develop social skills and confidence that you couldn't develop anywhere else.

Doing cold approaches like this can be very scary, so you have to overcome your own nerves to be able to go and do it.

By doing it, you learn a lot about yourself, and you make yourself into a stronger man or woman.

And finally, you'll be more empowered. You're going to have options.

If you see a guy you want to talk to, you can go do it instead of waiting for him to go do it, which can be frustrating.

And hey, let's be real here. Most guys don't approach either. It's why I teach this, because most guys want to learn it.

How Should A Woman Approach A Man

And finally, how should a woman approach a man?

If you're a woman who wants to approach a man, try these steps:

#1. Get His Attention

Say, "Excuse me", and once you have his eyes on your eyes, then you can start.

#2. Be Direct

Tell him why you're approaching him.

Tell him you thought he was a great looking man and you had to go talk to him. Or, you could comment on his personal style, or the fact that he's really fit.

Just be direct about it and let the pieces fall where they may.

#3. Learn About Him

After having a bit of a conversation, learn about him.

Talk to each other for a minute or two, or even longer.

That way you can make more of a connection and you can know a little bit about each other before actually going out.

#4. Ask Him Out

Now that you know a little bit about him, ask for his number or give him yours.


Here are the 4 simple steps you can try to approach a man:

  1. Get his attention: say "Excuse me" so you can get his eyes on your eyes
  2. Be direct: tell him exactly what motivated you to approach him
  3. Learn about him: make a connection so you can know know each other a bit before going out
  4. Ask him out: get his number or give him yours

Have you got any questions? Leave them below.

And if you want to learn more about how to approach, check out this post.

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