How Long Should You Wait To Text A Girl After The First Date (3 Secrets You Need To Know)

You just had a first date with a girl and it went really well. But how long should you wait to text a girl after the first date?

In this post, you'll learn:

  • When to message a girl after the first date
  • How you can get a lot more second dates

And so much more. Keep reading to find out:

How Long Should You Wait To Text A Girl After The First Date

Normally, any time between one and three days is okay.

Well, sometimes you can even set up the second day while you're on the first date, but usually I'll wait at least until the next day.

You don't have to worry about looking desperate, unless you actually are desperate.

If she's your only option and she's the only option you've got in a really long time, you might be feeling some of those needy feelings.

Basically, you're grasping on like you don't want to let her go. You're hoping it's gonna work out because there's nothing else on the horizon.

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If that's the case, check out this post where I explain how to approach more women and get more dates.

Otherwise, if you're not needy and you do have options, you're very unlikely to give off those needy vibes. Especially if you have other things going on besides dating.

However, if you're still worried about looking needy, then just wait a little bit longer. Wait three days and you'll be good.

Personally, I like to strike when the iron is hot, so I won't usually go more than a day or two, but it depends how busy I am.

Waiting too long can sometimes allow her to cool off, so you usually don't want to wait like a whole week.

But hey, if you have a whole bunch of dates lined up, then it doesn't really matter. Some of these girls will end up flaking, but if you have more dates lined up, then it's not a big deal.

If you want more info on how to text a girl, check out this post.

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Summary

Here's what you need to remember:

  1. Wait any time between one and three days and you'll be good
  2. If you have other options besides her, you're very unlikely to give off needy vibes
  3. Some girls will end up flaking, but if you have more dates lined up, it won't be a big deal

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