How Long Should You Wait For Date Two? (Quick Tip)

How long should you wait for date two?

Normally, the sooner the better you set up your second date is a good idea. The reason being that the longer you wait after your first date, the more she's going to cool off.

That doesn't mean you have to set up a second date right away, but sometime within the next week is a good idea.

In this post, you'll learn:

• How long should you wait to text her to set up a second date
• Who should initiate the second date

And a lot more. Let's get into it.

How Long Should You Wait For Date Two

To be practical, what really matters is your schedule. If you don't have time to fit her in your schedule, then you don't have time to fit her in your schedule, and she may be busy too. It's a busy world after all.

So, after your first date, when you want to set up your second date, check your calendar and message her within a couple of days and get that set up.

You can set it up for the next week if you're busy, or even a couple of weeks, which is not great… But hey, what can you do?

Just keep in mind that the longer you wait, the more likely she is to flake on you.

However, if you left a really good impression and she's really hot for you, then you probably do have a little bit of time to spare. And even then, time is of the essence here.

Now, here are some common questions about how long to wait between the first and the second date:

FAQs

How Long Should You Wait to Text for a Second Date?

Normally, waiting a couple of days to text for a second date is a good idea.

It shows you have other things going on and that you're not rushing to set up another date, but you're also waiting within a good time frame while you're still fresh in her mind.

Who Initiates a Second Date?

The person who initiates the second date is the man. Just like the man will normally initiate the first date, the man should also follow up for the second date to get that going.

Women are typically more passive. That's not always the case, but on average, they will wait till the guy gets back to them to set up that date.

So, take the initiative, follow up over text and get it going.

For more info on first dates, check out this post.

Summary

When setting up a second date, you have to remember three main points:

1. The longer you wait to set it up, the more likely she is to flake on you. You have to do it while you’re still fresh on her mind
2. A good time frame to set up a second date is anywhere between a couple of days and a week to set up a second date
3. Women are usually more passive, so it’s better if you take the initiative over text and get that second date going

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