How long does a girl usually wait to text back?
If you're asking this question, you're probably waiting on someone right now and you're thinking to yourself:
How long should I wait before I throw in the towel and give up on her?
In this article, you'll learn:
And so much more. Keep reading to find out:
This will vary a lot, but on average you can expect to get a text message by the next day if she's interested.
But if the next day has come and gone, then it's very unlikely you're actually going to receive a message from her.
However, there is one thing you can do.
If she hasn't responded to you in a couple days, then she's really not very interested.
Very often there's going to be some fence sitters who aren't taking initiative and they may be a little nervous and a little nudge will actually knock them off the fence and get them to reply to you.
But don't ask her if she's seen your text message, because obviously, she has seen your text message.
She just hasn't replied to you because she's been nervous and she maybe wasn't 100% interested, but also not 100% disinterested.
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For this kind of girl, all you have to do is send a question mark. Literally just a question mark.
You've already said what you need to say in the first message. There's nothing magical you're going to say on a second message that's going to make her super interested.
So, send that question mark and then forget about it.
If she doesn't respond to you, you should have another girl lined up. You should have another date.
And if not, you should be figuring out how to get another date.
Keep in mind, the question mark thing is a low percentage move. That means most girls aren't going to respond to it.
A few fence sitters will respond back to it, but it depends on how many date options you have.
If she’s the only girl you've had contact with in the last year, it's very unlikely it's going to ever work, because you don't have enough options.
But if you're lining up dates on a weekly basis, you're going to get some girls responding back to you with this kind of message.
If you're thinking a lot about this one girl who's not texting you back, it points to something else. Something about you.
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Let's put this in perspective.
What matters more? The girl's lack of responding to your text messages or your lack of options?
If you have a lot of options for dating, then one girl's response isn't going to really matter that much.
But if you only have one option, and if that one option is the only option you had in the last few months or the last year, or worse, then she's going to seem so immensely valuable.
You're going to be waiting on that message and wiping the sweat up your brow. You're going to be nervous about it because this is the only thing that's popped up for you in a long time.
You'll be hoping something is going to happen. It's basic supply and demand.
If you have a lot of dating options, then each individual date is not going to be as important.
But if you don't have a lot of dating options, each individual date is going to seem really important.
So if you want to expand your dating options, check out this post.
And if you want to learn more about how to text women, then check out this post.
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Here’s what you can do when you haven’t received a text message from a girl in two days:
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