How do you approach a straight woman to see if they like women?
Basically, this is something you're gonna do if you want a threesome. This is actually super easy and very simple.
In this post, I'm going to explain:
And so much more. Keep reading to find out:
This is something I've actually done many times with different women I've dated.
The only pre-requisite is that you must be dating multiple women.
Of course, you can make it work if you're only dating one woman because you can go on a search and find somebody to join you guys.
But this works much better if you're dating multiple women because now you have different options you can put together.
However, for whatever kind of relationship you have, the communication must be open.
You have to be able to ask questions and she has to be open to share with you in order to make it work. And here's how you can ask:
It just comes down to six simple words: "Have you ever had a threesome?"
Or alternatively, you can say, "Have you ever thought about being with another woman?"
Obviously this is very direct. You have to be comfortable enough with the girl you're dating or girls you're dating to be able to ask this question.
But if you're already having sexual relations, then you should be comfortable enough to talk about it too.
Also, you have to be open to the idea of her shooting down your ideas.
Keep in mind at this point you're only asking questions, if she's ever done it or if she's ever considered it before.
You're not actually asking her to do the act. And this is where you gauge to see how open she is.
You're going to find out if she likes women, if she's ever thought about having a threesome, or if she's ever had one, or if she's ever been with a woman already.
I've been with certain women who've already done it before. They've already had threesomes and they didn't really enjoy it.
They had a bad experience for some reason. Typically those are going to be very difficult to take anywhere.
Sometimes you can make it work as well if there's a promise of the "Holy Land" and you're going to make it better somehow.
A lot of women who have not had a threesome or who have not had an experience with another woman will be very open to it. A lot of women are very curious.
If she reacts positively and she's like, "No, I've never done it before, but I've always been curious, what about you?"
You now have an open dialogue and you can go into further details and talk about this.
The first time I ever set up a threesome between two very attractive women that I was dating at the time, open relationships happened while I was texting them.
I was actually texting both of them going back and forth. At the time, I lived in a different city than one of these women.
I had talked about the idea before with the woman I had been dating already for almost a year.
She was very open sexually, so I already knew that she was interested in having a threesome and being with a woman.
I was texting with the newer woman, and we were talking about trying different things sexually.
I asked her what she wanted to try, and she told me. And then she asked me if I wanted to try anything, and I was like, "Yeah, a threesome."
And she responded back like, "Well, do you know anyone?" And that kind of caught me off guard, because I wasn't really expecting it.
I texted the other girl right away who I already knew was interested, and I said, "Hey, remember that thing we talked about before having a threesome with another woman?"
She said, "Yeah", and I was like, "Well, I found somebody". And then I set it up. It was an awesome experience. Probably my best sexual experience ever.
There are lots of different ways this can go, but ask one of those questions to get her to start talking about it, to see how open she is.
This will work better usually if you're already in a sexual mood or you just had sex or you're having pillow talk and that kind of thing.
If you want to get some more dating options so you can put a threesome together, check out this post.
In order to be as direct as possible, you can use one of these questions:
This will help you understand how open she is sexually, and then you can start planning how you'll set it up.
Do you want a "personal trainer" for your love life? Learn more here.
Please log in again. The login page will open in a new tab. After logging in you can close it and return to this page.