You’re interested in improving your love life, and now you’re looking for a coach—but how can a dating coach help you?
A coach will show you how to attract more women and go on more dates than ever before.
Today I’ll explain what a dating coach is and how they can help you. Let’s jump in:
A dating coach is a trained professional who helps you get more dates, increase self-confidence, and ultimately build successful relationships.
Their goal is to help you reach your relationship goals. Whether you are looking to meet more women or are ready to find a lifelong partner, a dating coach can help.
Guidance from a trained professional can be a game changer to maximize your dating results.
Dating coaches address a wide variety of topics, such as: dating, relationships, sex, confidence and social skills.
The problem with receiving dating or relationship advice from friends or family is that they usually don’t have more than the average experience level with dating.
A good dating coach has far more experience with women than your average Joe. They know what works and what doesn’t through raw experience.
Personally I’ve been on over a thousand dates and have been with hundreds of women. The kind of things you learn at that experience level are far beyond what guys learn with average experiences.
“The biggest difference between men and women lies in the number of sexual partners - with men having ten in their lifetime, compared to an average of seven for women.
The study also revealed that men will have six relationships - two of which will last more than a year, while women will have five.” - Glamor Mag
A study from Healthline shows that men are having less sex than they used to.
Sex should be a healthy part of any man’s life. A dating coach will help you take those first steps outside of your comfort zone to meet attractive women.
With a good dating coach, you’ll attract more women than ever before and revitalize your sex life.
Self-confidence is a massive issue facing men today. A dating coach will:
Dating coaches will help you rediscover your masculine confidence around women. They’ll help you get rid of any pushover, “nice guy” tendencies, increase confidence, and equip you with the social skills required to meet and attract more women.
Are dating coaches legit, or just another multi-level marketing scheme preying on the naivete of the masses?
Coaches offer a service just like any other. It’s a highly specialized niche, and some coaches will be great while others will lack experience.
There’s nothing mystical about what coaches do though: they take guys out, show them how to talk to women, and help guys overcome approach-anxiety and other self sabotage.
Here are some questions people often ask about coaches:
Dating coaches and therapists have two main differences:
1) A dating coach's main focus is getting you on more dates or in a long-term relationship. Dating coaching is about taking action steps, and providing practical solutions and skills to attract women.
Dating coaches get guys out talking to real women and having real experiences. Many will actually go out in person with clients.
Personally, I take clients out and do live demonstrations on the street, in shops and at other locations, with any women we run into. I get my clients over their fears of talking to women and teach them how to open and have great conversations which lead to dates.
2) Therapists (relationship counselors, psychiatrists, etc.) are trying to find a solution to a problem psychologically. Therapists are focused exclusively on your thoughts and don’t have the skills or know-how to approach women, create attraction, and get dates.
Therapists can help you with emotional traumas or issues you’re dealing with, but practical dating skills are not part of their expertise.
Watching videos or reading blog posts online can never replace direct instruction and feedback.
Imagine a professional football team firing their coach and replacing him with an iPad and internet connection. Sure, they can find all the plays online, but those plays can’t be customized or applied correctly without an insightful coach.
I’ve given instructions to many students, only to watch them go and apply it incorrectly. They eventually get it but only with direct feedback which reinforces the correct behaviors.
A dating coach will equip you with the tools and techniques necessary to change your life, but there are limits.
Most guys who get coaching have little experience with women. For these guys, having live instruction is the most beneficial. There are also experienced guys who want to get to the next level, and they can benefit too.
A dating coach can help you fill in the experience gap.
Like most areas of life, you get what you pay for. If you hop on craigslist and book a dating coach for $20, you’ll receive craigslist level guidance and end up in a craigslist level relationship.
Many coaches who charge extremely low fees are inexperienced both in business and coaching. They don’t have well developed programs or structure to their training. It’s sort of by the seat of your pants, and everything is done on the fly.
Some coaches charge hourly and some charge for long term dating mentorship programs. This can range from $300 per hour to $10,000+ for a complete program.
It’s important to know your coaches personal experience with long term relationships to make sure they are of value to you.
If you’re looking for a lifelong partner, and a coach has been divorced 3 times and has been dating his current girlfriend for a month, it might be a red flag. On the other hand, he may be great at getting dates and could teach you these skills.
If you find a married coach who found his wife by employing the techniques he teaches, it’s a great sign that he “walks the walk”.
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