GF Not Responding To Text (How To Communicate Better)

Is your girlfriend ignoring your messages, aka GF not responding to text?

If so, there's definitely a problem and the biggest challenge is going to be the way you're communicating with her.

And so much more. Let's jump into it.

What Does It Mean When Your GF Is Not Answering

Anytime there's a change in the way someone communicates with you by text or otherwise, it always indicates that something is happening.

It doesn't always have to be a bad something, it may not be something to do with you at all, but it's definitely something to look into.

Usually, when they stop communicating with you, they just basically stop messaging you or the messages are less lively, less responsive.

It often means that their feelings may be changing, or at least in the moment.

However, women usually don't go cold on text messages unless you're also going cold-hearted, too (with the exception of being legitimately busy).

But, is your girlfriend just busy, or does she no longer have the same feelings for you?

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How To Address The Issue In Person

If you don't know already and you're reading this post, it means you haven't actually talked to her about it in person.

And if you're not getting a lot of responses by text, then text is not the best way to communicate with her and ask her why she's not texting you back.

You need to be able to meet her in person and say: "Hey, things have changed with us. There are differences in the way we're communicating. You're not really messaging me anymore. What's happening?"

Don't beat around the bush or accept a shitty answer. If she's legitimately busy and that's the only thing that's happening, then you're going to find out pretty quickly.

You're going to know if she's sincere or not based on the way she's talking with you.

If she's beating around the bush or avoiding the real answer, you're going to know, because usually you're going to get weird answers.

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She'll be like: "Oh, no, no, nothing's wrong", avoiding or changing the topic really quickly.

It's important to find out if her feelings have changed, because otherwise, you're going to be wasting your time with her.

Nobody likes sending messages and being left on read, whether it's with friends or romantic partners. Because that means they don't really care.

Again, with the exceptions of when people are legitimately busy.

But even then, it's pretty easy to send a text message or even let somebody know that you're busy and you'll get back to them later. And that's all there really is to it.

You need to have direct communication in person, not via text. Find out what's going on and decide if you want to move on or everything is fine.

For more info on texting girls, check this post.

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Summary

Here's what you need to remember when figuring out why your GF isn't answering:

1. When she stops communicating with you, it often means that their feelings may be changing (at least in the moment)
2. It's important to find out if her feelings have changed. If you don't, you're going to be wasting your time with her
3. You need to have direct communication about the issue in person, not via text

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