If you’re interested in getting confidence to meet Calgary singles without online dating or clubs then keep reading.
Calgary is Canada’s fourth largest city with nearly one million people. The average age is 37, and needless to say there are plenty of single women waiting for the right man to show up.
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The Calgary dating scene provides many opportunities for any guy who’s willing to learn how to make it work. With more than 1,200,000 people, and being Canada’s third largest municipality, there’s no shortage of dating opportunities.
That’s not to say that it’s easy though:
Most men, especially shy guys, have been conditioned to keep their mouths shut when an attractive woman walks by. I’m not referring to cat calling, but to the most basic social skill: the ability to introduce ourselves to women.
Other men who’ve tried may have had bad experiences when it didn’t work out well:
So what’s a guy to do?
I’m going to explain a couple ways you can do it on your own, or with help from a dating coach.
There are two basic ways you can introduce yourself to women in public settings:
Direct openers are great because you can get to the point quickly, express your honest feelings, and avoid misunderstandings about your intentions. A lot of women appreciate the boldness too. Being assertive is one of the main qualities that will attract women.
Indirect openers are perfect for situations where there may be a lot of public pressure. In a store or cafe with a lot of people around are a couple of examples. It’s also a casual approach which is virtually rejection free when done properly. That is, until you ask for her number.
Either can be effective and are great ways to break the ice. Learning how to do both is the best strategy because only having one way to start conversations can be very limiting.
In terms of personal development, doing direct approaches is going to have the biggest effect. This is because we have to deal with our fears about rejection. A lot of nerves can come up when we’re faced with an attractive woman who we’ve never met before.
In the long run, character building will have the biggest affect on the quality of relationships you get into. When we improve ourselves, we improve everything in our lives.
C&W coaching focuses on the whole man, not superficial gimmicks.
Unless you want a matchmaker, there are very few dating services in Calgary which coach men to confidently meet women. Most relationship coaches won’t wing guys, and established dating coaches who aren’t PUA’s (pickup artist) are rare.
So what’s left, singles events or speed dating?
Those can be fun, but they force you to rely on other people to put events together. Learning how to start conversations with attractive women and get dates, anywhere, is liberation for the independent man.
How many times have you seen an attractive woman and couldn’t come up with the right words to say? Or maybe you tried, but got a weird look or a polite conversation which went nowhere?
This is where Conquer & Win comes in:
If you want a coach by your side who will show you the ropes, give you a step by step plan, and help you get socially confident, Conquer & Win can get you there. Get a personal mentorship from an experienced coach who understands the psychology of dating and confidence building.
No sleazy pickup artist tactics or drama. Only real character building, accountability, advanced social skills training and guidance so you can achieve your relationship & dating goals.
You deserve a better love life.
Your dating coach is your wingman, mentor, and personal trainer for your love life. Just as going to the gym will help you build muscle or burn fat, social training will build up your courage and social skills so you can get dates on your own terms.
No more waiting to be introduced by friends, asking out coworkers, sending dozens of messages online, or hanging around in bars or clubs and hoping to beat the odds to meet a relationship quality woman.
Every new years, people crowd into the gym with no plan, no support, and no road map to help them get fit. They have great intentions and really feel like this year is the year I finally get fit.
What happens to all of these enthusiastic gym goers?
Within 3 weeks, 85% of them have quit. After all of the enthusiasm fades away, many of them realize that nothing is happening. They show up at the gym choosing random exercise machines, do haphazard workouts, then go home wondering if they even made any difference.
Soon they start missing workouts. That kills their enthusiasm even more, and soon after it’s all over. The same directionless pursuit will be repeated again a year later.
Going after a goal without a plan is a guaranteed way to fail. This is no different for your personal life.
That’s why coaching is so effective.
You don’t have to reinvent the wheel and try hundreds of things that just don’t work. It’s even harder when there isn’t any support or accountability to keep you going through tough challenges.
Look, if you knew how to create the kind of love life you wanted, you’d have it already. It’s time to try something new and get the support and expertise to fast track you to success.
I’ve been on more than a thousand dates, and this gives me a unique perspective on meeting women. I see guys make the same basic mistakes women, over and over again. This leads to frustration, loneliness, and eventually resentment.
That doesn’t have to be your story though.
Learn from the best and advance your love life faster than possible by yourself. I’m the personal trainer for your love life to get you the kind of relationship you’ve always desired.
If you want more information about me go here.
Coaching is available in Calgary, over Skype, or in Vancouver if you’d like to travel. There are three main programs available to men:
Long term mentorships are done via Skype, in person, or a combination of the two. Your program will build success mindsets, remove negative beliefs which are holding you back, incorporate positive lifestyle habits and teach you advanced social skills & confidence which can be used in dating, business, and with friends.
Mentorships are between 3 months to 6 months of weekly coaching.
Investment: Custom programs – Inquire below for details.
2. Weekend dating bootcamps
Learn how to express yourself directly with women without hesitation. Bootcamps are short intensive programs and are completely hands on.
That means you’ll go out with your coach and learn from example (live demonstrations) and through direct experience by starting conversations with women. Your coach will give you direct feedback and help improve your dating skills in a short period of time.
Learn how to do direct approaches and casual indirect approaches.
It’s recommended to do a mentorship for long term results and support. Boot camps can be done as a standalone program.
Investment: $2687 for two full days of intensive one on one training (+expenses and applicable taxes)
Just as immersion is the best way to learn a language, your dating & life coaching immersion will put you on the fast track to success.
Go out daily with your coach and learn dating skills, advanced social skills, how to overcome nervousness or “approach anxiety”, success mindsets, and internalize confident daily habits which will build your character as a man.
Immersion programs are between 7 -30 days of daily training but are customized to fit your needs.
Investment: Custom programs – Inquire below.
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I'm the founder of Conquer & Win, and since 2011 I've been helping guys get into great relationships, build their core values as men, and become confident. I'm published on Lifehack, Order of Man, POF, Psychcentral and many more. I want to help you become a better man and live to your full potential. Feel free to contact me here.