I was at a bank once when the teller asks what I do for a living… I tell him, “I’m a dating coach for men”…(bracing his response like I normally do, which usually consists of them telling me about all their problems with women OR telling me that men just need to have some balls). […]
Violence has roots, so does suffering. Both feminists and egalitarians have suggested ways to cultivate a safer society. Yet, some people are surprised to learn that the practice of distributing compassion equally is an important way in which egalitarianism differs from feminism. This difference is tragically striking when it comes to the issue of child abuse. Unlike […]
I got a msg from a friend the other night, he tells me, "I've got a crush on a girl I met at a work event." "Cool", I responded. "Ask her out." "I didn't get a chance to ask her out but I added her on Facebook. I'm not sure if I should ask her […]
OK, this isn't cool. There is a school of thought which I've seen from some dating coaches in Vancouver which makes everybody in this industry look very bad. It also leaves a lot of women with bad experiences from overly aggressive guys who don't know when to back off. That school of thought is that you should […]
The most common whiny guy thing I hear is, "I just want to be myself." Here's a reality check; you would already have what you want if being yourself worked. It's almost nauseating to write about this topic because people should know already that you're not going to get what you want by doing the same […]
How many people die without ever having lived their goals? The true story below illustrates the reality of life; unrelenting, and never stopping for anyone. None of us knows how long we will be alive for, all we can do is predict that we will probably make it to whatever average lifespan there is for […]
You just met her. Maybe it was at a party, a networking event or even on the street. Your heart is racing and your mouth is, too, but just as quickly as it started, your conversation has died like romance on a date to McDonald’s. It’s best to learn now how to never run out of […]
She walked past me in the opposite direction. Her face was eclipsed by a black umbrella tilted slightly forward, but I could see her lips, and my senses were tempted. At that moment, I was pushing through an after-work crowd with a friend in tow, talking about how to meet women. Serendipity struck; my friend and […]
Want to meet an awesome woman? Then you should become an awesome man — but how? Conventional wisdom on the topic is usually lacking. “Just be confident” or “just be yourself” doesn’t seem to work. Rather, the right experiences will create your man-foundation. As a man, you have to build yourself from the inside out […]
Sometimes the world seems cold and uncaring; most people only seem concerned with themselves and rarely ever get around to helping others. Often it seems like people will even take the opportunity to help someone and do the exact opposite, on purpose. The small things are often the most meaningful, and the easiest way to make […]
