Romantic or Needy? The Real Reason Guys Get Tunnel Vision With Women

I got a msg from a friend the other night, he tells me, "I've got a crush on a girl I met at a work event." "Cool", I responded. "Ask her out." "I didn't get a chance to ask her out but I added her on Facebook. I'm not sure if I should ask her […]

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Pick Up Artists Harassing Women In Vancouver? The Wrong Way To Meet Women

OK, this isn't cool. There is a school of thought which I've seen from some dating coaches in Vancouver which makes everybody in this industry look very bad. It also leaves a lot of women with bad experiences from overly aggressive guys who don't know when to back off. That school of thought is that […]

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The Cure For Bad Results With Women? Stop Trying To Be Yourself

The most common whiny guy thing I hear is, "I just want to be myself." Here's a reality check; you would already have what you want if being yourself worked. It's almost nauseating to write about this topic because people should know already that you're not going to get what you want by doing the […]

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Shy Man Never Had A Girlfriend, Dies Of Cancer With His Dreams Untouched

How many people die without ever having lived their goals? The true story below illustrates the reality of life; unrelenting, and never stopping for anyone. None of us knows how long we will be alive for, all we can do is predict that we will probably make it to whatever average lifespan there is for […]

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Never Be Awkward Again: 6 Ways To Be Confident In Your Conversation With Anyone

You just met her. Maybe it was at a party, a networking event or even on the street. Your heart is racing and your mouth is, too, but just as quickly as it started, your conversation has died like romance on a date to McDonald’s. It’s best to learn now how to never run out […]

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Approach Women Like a Gentleman 6 Ways To Get The Girlfriend Of Your Dreams

She walked past me in the opposite direction. Her face was eclipsed by a black umbrella tilted slightly forward, but I could see her lips, and my senses were tempted. At that moment, I was pushing through an after-work crowd with a friend in tow, talking about how to meet women. Serendipity struck; my friend […]

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8 Unconventional Ways A Man Can Build His Confidence And Be More Datable

Want to meet an awesome woman? Then you should become an awesome man — but how? Conventional wisdom on the topic is usually lacking. “Just be confident” or “just be yourself” doesn’t seem to work. Rather, the right experiences will create your man-foundation. As a man, you have to build yourself from the inside out […]

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Kindness Counts: Postal Workers Deliver Little Girls Christmas Letter Without Stamps

Sometimes the world seems cold and uncaring; most people only seem concerned with themselves and rarely ever get around to helping others. Often it seems like people will even take the opportunity to help someone and do the exact opposite, on purpose. The small things are often the most meaningful, and the easiest way to make […]

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How Do You Deal With Relationship Insecurity? Get Your Own Life

Ever sat around wondering what your partner was doing, only to be caught up in anxiety and spending the next hour picturing the worst-case scenario? It’s time to get your own life, and let your girlfriend have hers. I’ve been in the same situation, and usually it was during an insecure point in my life […]

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His Wife Cheated on Him for 10 Years: Don’t Waste Your Life Says Man on Reddit

I don't think the urgency to do what you've always wanted to do could be emphasized better than with this letter on Reddit. It's usually only when we hit a crisis in our lives, or we realize that we have wasted everything, do we see clearly what we should have done. It doesn't have to […]

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I'm Eddy Baller and since 2011 I've been helping guys get into great relationships, build their core values as men, and become confident. I'm published on Lifehack, Order of Man, and POF among others. I want to help you become a better man and live to your full potential. Learn how here.

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