The most common whiny guy thing I hear is, "I just want to be myself." Here's a reality check; you would already have what you want if being yourself worked. It's almost nauseating to write about this topic because people should know already that you're not going to get what you want by doing the […]
How many people die without ever having lived their goals? The true story below illustrates the reality of life; unrelenting, and never stopping for anyone. None of us knows how long we will be alive for, all we can do is predict that we will probably make it to whatever average lifespan there is for […]
You just met her. Maybe it was at a party, a networking event or even on the street. Your heart is racing and your mouth is, too, but just as quickly as it started, your conversation has died like romance on a date to McDonald’s. It’s best to learn now how to never run out […]
She walked past me in the opposite direction. Her face was eclipsed by a black umbrella tilted slightly forward, but I could see her lips, and my senses were tempted. At that moment, I was pushing through an after-work crowd with a friend in tow, talking about how to meet women. Serendipity struck; my friend […]
Want to meet an awesome woman? Then you should become an awesome man — but how? Conventional wisdom on the topic is usually lacking. “Just be confident” or “just be yourself” doesn’t seem to work. Rather, the right experiences will create your man-foundation. As a man, you have to build yourself from the inside out […]
Sometimes the world seems cold and uncaring; most people only seem concerned with themselves and rarely ever get around to helping others. Often it seems like people will even take the opportunity to help someone and do the exact opposite, on purpose. The small things are often the most meaningful, and the easiest way to make […]
Ever sat around wondering what your partner was doing, only to be caught up in anxiety and spending the next hour picturing the worst-case scenario? It’s time to get your own life, and let your girlfriend have hers. I’ve been in the same situation, and usually it was during an insecure point in my life […]
I don't think the urgency to do what you've always wanted to do could be emphasized better than with this letter on Reddit. It's usually only when we hit a crisis in our lives, or we realize that we have wasted everything, do we see clearly what we should have done. It doesn't have to […]
If you're going through a breakup and feeling the sting of loss, it's time to take charge of your emotions and start the road to recovery. When you hit rock bottom it can be traumatizing, but you can recover faster if you start focusing on the right things. The only thing we really have control […]
“She looks like she's in a hurry” “I'm in a rush......” “She's not really my type....” These are a few of the lies I hear over and over again from guys who are masking their fear of rejection instead of taking the bull by the horns (instead of the bull taking you by the gonads). […]
